I recently watched a movie called Five Feet Apart. A movie about cystic fibrosis patients who weren't allowed to be within 6 feet of each other and had to wear a mask whenever around each other because they were high risk for contracting each other's bacteria which could be fatal. There was one scene where the nurse admitted to allowing two patients to break the rules because she wanted to make them happy as they were in love. Their determination wore down her resolve and she didn't enforce the rules as per her role. The story conveyed, the risks outweighed the reward and they both passed away. The nurse gleened from this event a renewed resolved to not allow this to ever happen again on her watch. I wondered how many times we risk our health and well being by breaking rules in the name of happiness/love. We have to ask ourselves, is it more loving to force denied/delayed gratification or at minimum a brief period of uncomfortableness so that our health, well-being a...
I had no idea my daughter could rhyme she places her ideas on paper like mine this time it caught me by pleasant surprise for the first time I looked into her eyes and I saw the image of myself When she first captured my attention I respectfully gave a mild reaction but she grabbed and twisted until I finally submitted and she inspired me From then on I could only trust from the shoulders of those before us that faithfully given opportunity she would become her own identity and we would incite a war with words
We tend to base our decisions on emotions. While charisma and chemistry are strong indicators that we can enter into relationships; it doesn't mean, we may not exit them unscathed. Maturity and wisdom are powerful tools that help control the urge to enter into something for which we are not ready, committed, or prepared. Today's world appears to thrive on this now mentality that breeds instant gratification. The unfortunate reality is that immediate exposure doesn't allow us to develop the principles of patience and long-suffering that build character and minimizes selfishness or vindictiveness. The result is we're informed but then what? The perception that we must be "successful" is driven by shortcuts while we act (sometimes too quickly) on emotional impulse. The Bible says it all: wait, watch, be steadfast, unmovable, patient, planted, anxious for nothing, and tons of other synonyms. Require maturity in yourself and you'll be less inclined to t...
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